Why Was Biblically Feminine Created?

Growing up, I embraced a tomboy identity—drawn to masculine hobbies and hardened by deep wounds, including childhood sexual abuse. I unknowingly adopted the lie that femininity was weak, and that strength meant acting like a man. Influenced by modern feminism, I believed my worth came from how much I could push, lead, or dominate. This mindset caused me to build walls around my heart, distance myself from others, and lose touch with the beauty of true womanhood.

Two years after being Born Again (John 3:3), I fully surrendered my masculine identity to the Lord. It wasn’t easy. The transformation was painful and deeply refining. I wrestled with what it meant to be feminine in a world that celebrates rebellion and self-glory. But through the Word of God, I discovered the quiet strength, power, and dignity of a woman who walks in biblical femininity. I learned that submission isn’t weakness—it’s power under God’s authority. That softness is not passivity—but divine strength clothed in grace.

This journey opened my eyes to how far culture—even within the church—has drifted from God’s beautiful and intentional design for women. Many women are confused, hurting, and hungry for truth. That’s why I created Biblically Feminine—not just to tell my story, but to disciple and walk with women through their own transformation.

This ministry exists to help women heal, break free from worldly ideologies, and embrace their God-given identity with boldness and joy. Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, I want you to know: you were created for more than the world’s version of womanhood. You were created to be a servant, not a dictator; a nurturer, not a destroyer; a life-bringer, not a life-taker.

I hope to help women rediscover that our strength is not found in becoming like men—but in becoming the women God has called us to be.

-Mallory Hammond

What Does Coaching Entail?

1. Deepen Your Relationship with Jesus

The foundation of true biblical femininity is intimacy with Christ. In this first step, you’ll learn how to know God deeply, understand His Word clearly, and hear His voice confidently. We’ll walk through foundational theology, prayer, and Scripture study—so that everything else in your life flows from a thriving relationship with Jesus.

2. Embrace Your God-Given Identity

So many women today are confused about who they are. Through biblical teaching and practical guidance, you’ll break free from cultural lies and discover what it truly means to be a woman made in God’s image. Whether you’re overcoming a traumatic past, shedding a tomboy/masculine mindset, or just craving clarity, this is where identity becomes secure and beautiful.

3. Strengthen Your Relationships and Prepare for Marriage

Whether you’re single or married, healthy relationships are vital to a God-honoring life. I offer biblical discipleship and counseling to help you thrive in singleness, prepare for a Christ-centered marriage, or become that strong, honoring, and submissive wife if you are already married. You’ll learn how to communicate, serve, and love from a place of strength and humility.

4. Discover and Walk in Your God-Given Purpose

You were created with a divine calling—and I want to help you walk it out. From clarifying your spiritual gifts to equipping you with practical skills, this step is all about learning how to live fully for the Kingdom. Together, we’ll discern what God has uniquely called you to do and how to do it with boldness, grace, and purpose.

One Day God Spoke To Me and Said…

“For so long you’ve viewed the gender I gave you as a crutch. A burden. Or a liability. Don’t you know I make no mistake? I knew you before I created the world. I crafted you as a woman for a reason- Your femininity is your strongest weapon against the enemy and this world. It’s time to put down the swords I designed for your brothers to carry, and pick up the sword I hand crafted for you and your sisters. It’s time to be the woman I’ve created you to be, My princess.”

Ready to embrace your God-given identity?

It’s time to heal, grow, and flourish into the woman God has aways called you to be.